It's Spring...time for some spring
cleaning! The 'sibs' and I spent some time over the weekend helping
our parents do a little spring cleaning. The biggest project was
sorting and re-stacking a massive pile of firewood they accumulated
over the past 30+ years.
(Ok, that's not really the wood we stacked...but it felt like it!) We also hauled away some scrap metal, an old snowmobile, a snow blower with a bad engine, and a few other select items. Throughout the day, my parents held 'delicate negotiations' over what should be kept and what should be recycled. Naturally they didn't always agree, but overall it was a very productive day. It really got me thinking about the stuff I've been keeping year after year. What have I been packing around that I really should get rid of?
We spend a lifetime accumulating
things, most for legitimate needs, sometimes for no good reason at
all. It would be foolish (and impossible) to keep every single thing
we collect in life, so how does one decide what to keep, and what to
let go? It’s one of life’s most vexing questions. If you
discard things too quickly, you may end up buying them again, but if
you keep everything you accumulate, you’ll end up on a reality
television show (not the best way to become famous)! We all know
someone who hoards, and for some of us that person is us! Have you
had stuff in storage so long you’ve forgotten what you have? Have
you saved something for a long time and don’t know why? The fact
is, sooner or later someone will have to deal with the things you
accumulate, because we never seem to last as long as our stuff does!
So... get rid of some stuff!
In deciding what to get rid of, keep
in mind that situations are different, so you can’t apply the same
storage rules to everyone. For example, farmers have a good reason
to save old farm equipment, they may eventually need it for parts
repairs. But you? You're not a farmer. You don't need that old
swather in your back yard! You would be silly to throw out items
that have a clear use in the near future. Unless you have unlimited
resources, you don't toss out your winter clothing every spring, or
your summer clothing at the first hint of cold weather. So what is
the right balance? Just ask yourself this question: How much crap
do I want to leave for my heirs to sort through? Note: By crap I
don’t mean land, cattle, homes, gold, stocks, cash and priceless
antiques...heirs really like that stuff and are more than happy to
sort through it!
There's a real feeling of cleansing
and accomplishment when you unload useless baggage you've been
carrying around for a long time (no, I'm not waxing all religious on
you..but it applies just the same!). Sometimes less really is more.
Less stuff equals less to worry about, less to store, less to repair
and maintain. Less gives you more time to think about the things you
don't have yet! How does your family room look on Christmas morning?
Mine looks like a disaster area. I think how clean and organized it
would be if everyone received only one gift instead of a truckload.
If I just ruined Christmas for you...sorry, but what if you had to
leave your home quickly the day after Christmas, taking only what you
could carry on your back. How many of those gifts would be left
behind? Humbug..probably most of them.
I'm not trying to rain on your
parade. Do what you want, it's a free country, but know this: If
you decrease the amount of stuff you keep for no good reason,
all of your wildest hopes and dreams will certainly come true! Who
doesn't want that?
Wonderful information and great way to look at life and our things! Thanks very much Kristy
ReplyDeleteBoy do I know what your talking about. Try putting your house up for sale! That lets you know in a hurry how much junk you have laying around that you really don't need. And even now there is a ton more I'm sure I can eliminate! Thanks for the info, Karen
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